How to Potty Train a Toddler Who Doesn’t Notice They Are Wet

It’s a common scenario: your toddler wees in their nappy, and they don’t even notice. You change them, a few minutes later it happens again. You start wondering: Will they ever notice they are doing a wee? 

The reality is simple: most toddlers don’t notice they’re wet because nappies are designed to keep them dry. Their body doesn’t naturally signal them yet and that’s completely normal. Before starting potty training, the focus is on gently preparing your child so they begin to connect with their body cues. This is the foundation that makes later potty training smoother and less stressful for both parent and child.

Before you start potty training it is very unlikely your toddler will notice when they've done a wee. Nappies are just so absorbent and wick away any wetness that they won't connect the feeling of doing a wee and the feeling of wetness until you remove the nappy.

That’s where Potty Pros comes in. Designed for toddlers aged 18–24 months, the course provides a step-by-step, gentle method to help your child eventually notice when they’re doing a wee — without bribes, pressure, or rushing through a three-day program. You’ll learn how to start preparing in a calm, structured way, so your toddler is ready when the time comes.

I’ve been exactly where you are. Potty training toddlers isn’t something parents are taught - it's learned through experience. Being a professional nanny has given me hands on experience with potty training countless toddlers, and over the years, I’ve researched, observed, and trialed techniques to discover the most gentle, effective, stress-free approach.

I’m passionate about helping parents navigate this milestone calmly, without feeling overwhelmed. Potty Pros isn’t built on bribes, rushing, or taking nappies off on day one. Instead, it’s a step-by-step method that respects your toddler’s pace and builds independence. Plus for extra support, there’s a dedicated potty training community where you can chat with me and other parents, ask questions, and share your journey.

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Why the Potty Pros Academy Works When Others Don’t

Potty training can feel impossible when your child still has no idea they have a dirty or wet nappy. Here’s how Potty Pros makes it easier:

Gentle, Stress-Free Training
No shouting, bribes, or rewards. Your child learns at their own pace, which reduces power struggles and builds lasting confidence.

A Step-by-Step Plan That Fits Your Life
The course guides you through each stage, so you know exactly what to do and when. You can progress as your child is ready, making potty training predictable and achievable.

Toddlers Who Take Ownership
Rather than chasing them or using stickers and rewards, your toddler learns to notice their own body cues and feel proud of their achievements — a skill that lasts long after potty training is complete.

• Step-by-step potty training stages

• Gentle method for toddlers 18–24 months

• No bribes, rewards, or rushing

• Strategies for accidents and regressions

• Access to a supportive parent community

• Downloadable guides 

• Lifetime course access

• Troubleshooting advice for common challenges

• Confidence-building for both parent and child
  
  

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